Revision surgery

Blairsara · #1 (**permalink**) 04-30-2007, 11:35 AM

Hey guys,
Thanks for all of your comments. I appreciate them. I definitely had to calm down before I addressed that guy. I didnt want to say anything that I would regret later on. Everyone is right with what they have said - you definitely have to take the internet for what it's worth.

But being less than 13 days from my surgery that was very insensitive and rude. Since that has been the second time around where I have basically been called crazy on that site for explaining what I have been going through I'm going to stick to ispine. I have found that the people on this site are much more supportive, even when it comes to things that they havent had personal experience with - and with my case there are very few people who have had the same experience. So anyways, thank you all for being so supportive. I truly appreciate it.

Regarding Matt I did respond to him - I told him that what he said was insensitive and rude, that i didnt owe him an explanation for anything but that I havent taken this situation lightly and am taking the least invasive procedure recommended. I think that's all that he deserves. bastard.

Hope everyone had a good weekend.

Blair

Blairsara · #2 (**permalink**) 04-30-2007, 11:58 AM

PS - does anyone know how the person is doing who had the revision surgery on the 20th? I believe she had the prodisc taken out.

I'm starting to get major anxiety. Just really realized this about a few minutes ago. I've been throwing myself at my work since I have my finals coming up the few days right before my surgery. I don't even have the words to explain what I'm feeling.

chasswen · #3 (**permalink**) 04-30-2007, 07:26 PM

blair
i just wanted to chime in to wish you and your surgeon a non eventual surgery and a speedy recovery. and will be praying for you and sending you tons of positive thoughts.
and hang in there you are going to ace your finials.

May The Force Be With You!!!!!
chuck

Maria · #4 (**permalink**) 04-30-2007, 10:10 PM

Hey Blair,
I canceled my surgery today again because Dr.D's secretary didn't get the message when I left it thru the general office staff. She said that happens. I felt bad because I had given nearly a month's notice and should have called again to follow up but didn't because of other things going on.
Thankfully she said just reschedule when I'm ready and sometimes Dr.D is booked up 8 weeks in advance so I should get a date going soon. Still trying to figure out when I'll do the other foot surgery since still recovering from the last one (only able to wear sandals still but walking more). My low back has been screaming at me lately since I haven't been walking much.

I just wanted to add that I think your anxiety is really normal normal normal. At least you aren't like me and you will stick to your surgery schedule. Good girl!!!!!

Also sorry that you were bothered by what someone said to you regarding your surgery~ having met you, I can vouch for the fact you are far from crazy and just following a rational plan to try and fix your spine so you can move on. We all have to make decisions on what to do with OUR bodies and I believe this particular person is really hurting from the outcome of his wife's surgery~ he probably didn't mean to make you feel badly but rather to implore you to think more about the surgery which of course as we all know we each think so much about our spines and surgeries that are recommended it's practically as tho we are possessed and definately obcessing (at least I do)...

Wishing you some peace, I know it's hard to come by right now tho I hope it comes your way~

dshobbies · #5 (**permalink**) 04-30-2007, 11:30 PM

Blair,

Having been around the block already, you know that the anxiety you're feeling is quite normal. Of course you feel ready to jump out of your own skin. We all did, just as you did once before. Add to that your finals, your doubt, family problems and anything else going on in your life and you're plate is beyond full. That which doesn't kill you only makes you stronger and that you're still posting proves you're still alive, therefore, you're getting stronger by the day.

You have a lot on your mind which is actually better than having to dwell on your upcoming surgery alone. Having 'dwelled' on way too much my whole life, I've now decided that if it isn't important tomorrow, it's not important today. The more I remember that, the happier I am.

So stay clear of your brother, dismiss the negative posts, concentrate on your finals and look forward to May 11th. It'll all be over by then! Above all... don't forget to breathe

Hang in there, I have a feeling you'll do great, Dale

Blairsara · #6 (**permalink**) 05-02-2007, 11:55 AM

Just wanted to say thanks for all the comments. I have my pre-op appointment tomorrow with my internist and then my pre-op appointment with Wagner next week. Can't believe the surgery is coming up so soon!

Do you guys have any pointers on what to bring with me to the hospital besides the regular necessities? - toothbrush, toothpaste, brush, face wash, etc...? Any helpful pointers will be very much appreciated! Thanks.

dshobbies · #7 (**permalink**) 05-02-2007, 10:46 PM

Blair,

One thing that is never discussed is how much your throat hurts (or is dry) after surgery because of the tube placed down your throat. If allowed, I would bring something to suck on for the first couple of days, be it life savers or whatever, anything to keep your throat moist. I found that ice cubes don't last long enough. The key word is, if it's allowed on your restricted diet. Ask now, not after the fact.