Embarrassing question for men
 

I have a very embarrassing question for the men. After my fusion at L5/S1 I have noticed something strange. Before I orgasm, I start to ejaculate. It is not a shooting type, it just slowly comes out. After a few seconds I orgasm like normal with a lower amount of ejaculation. What has happened!! Is it nerve issues? I am still having nerve issues with my legs and I wonder if it is related. I guess the pulling out technique won't work anymore! Has anyone had this happen after surgery? Sorry if this is a crude question, but it concerns me.

Hi Eastex

That is not a embarrassing question, I think it is common after spine surgery.

Mark may have the answer.?

Hey at least you are still in the game :)

All The Best

Gil:)

I do not have lumbar issues (that I know of) but when my pain issues started I noticed exactly what you are describing. I never put the two together. It doesn't matter to me now though, I can't even pleasure myslef due to the pain. Sex is completely out of the question.

I hope someone else might chime in. It is interesting.

i think its called retrograde ejaculation and its a possible side-effect of an ALIF.

its supposed to clear up over time.

Retrograde ejaculation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Even though this does not sound like retrograde ejaculation it probably is related to the surgery and there is a chance it will imporve with time.

Deer Exercise
 

Check out the men's version of the Chi Gong Deer Exercise. It greatly strengthens male energy along with controlling ejaculation.
This link has the full-power version, but one can also just squeeze the perineal muscles or even anal sphincters anywhere anytime. (Just don't squeeze too much.)

Male Deer Exercise: Simple Sexual Qi Gong for Men's Vitality, Sexual Health, and Pleasure