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Old 05-16-2009, 12:55 AM
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Hi all,

My father died last night. I'm in shock. I also found out that I have a half brother I didn't know about. I googled him and wrote to him. I just feel overwhelmed today. Akkkk. D.
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Old 05-16-2009, 01:04 AM
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D,

It is a sad day when losing someone you love. There are really no words of comfort other than I'm sorry.

Discovering a half brother could ultimately prove positive in your life. Here's hoping.

My thoughts are with you, Dale
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:26 AM
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Hi Dridobits

I am sad to hear you lost your father I lost mine last June after a long illness.

I still find it hard to deal with parents are your rock.

As for a your half brother that is wonderful

You have my deepest sympathy

Gil
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Old 05-16-2009, 04:20 PM
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I am so sorry. Sounds like it was definitely sudden. I agree. The half-brother discovery could be a real blessing.

You have my deepest regrets as well,

Cindylou
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Old 05-16-2009, 10:15 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.
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PT, ESI's, Facet injection and block, Acupuncture - all no help.

2-level (Prodisc-L) ADR surgery with Dr. Bertagnoli, May 26, 2009.

Currently taking Opana-ER (tapering off) and oxycodone
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Old 05-17-2009, 12:30 AM
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D,
So sorry to hear this esp. if you weren't expecting it. My condolences to you and your family. I hope meeting your half brother is an OK thing and of some support to you if not now, eventually.

There really are no words at this time that are adequate so I'm sending along a cyber hug ~ Maria
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Old 05-18-2009, 04:20 AM
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My sincerest condolences for your sudden and big loss.
You are the second person I've heard of who discovered a half-sibling after a parent's death and my husband and I both found out previously unknown things about our parents--it just makes the loss harder because you realize that there were conversations that will never be held.
Be well.
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Old 05-18-2009, 06:07 AM
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I am also very sorry for the loss of your father.
Phylly
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Old 05-22-2009, 12:48 PM
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I"m very sorry for your loss. I've been there w/both parents. You'll survive and go ahead and feel the pain, let it out. My best, Allan
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