CindyLou,
Maybe you can see if you can do any home stretches? When did the surgeon say you could do any PT?
After my last surgery, I started PT at three months and the stretching really helped those stiff, tight, and sore muscles.
It is probably time to bring this to the attention of your doctor and see what he says.
It is scary to think of a life of chronic pain, hopefully, this is just post-surgical stiffness and adjustment to your new alignment.
Runner