[Jim M2]

Grace,
In my humble opinion

Yes, your family doctor is incompetent.

Question 1 - Yes, it sounds like an acute condition that requires immediate attention, I mean like today!

Question 2 - Probably no one can answer this question as it would depend on so many factors.

I think you should call the neurologist or NS and ask to speak directly to the doctor, on their cell phone if need be. To keep it simple tell the staff and doctor the alarming symptoms "...pain has been replaced by complete and total numbness. I am just dragging a stump around." "NO feeling below my left calf and have completely lost the ability to tap my foot or raise it from the heel The sole of my foot is totally numb, too"

Ask them to work you into their schedule immediately.

If that doesn't work consider going to the ER for a referral. Why not? Too many of us fall through the cracks of the medical bureaucracy.

Good luck, keep us informed.