thanks for the info and advice, i dont seem to get many replys on this site and this was encouraging.
i now have an app on the 4th of june to discuss which operation i will be having although still waiting on date for the op itself!!!!!!!!!!
but as soon as he said he'd op i mentioned adr and he said no out right so dont think this will be an option, he seemed quite keen on dynesys will open new thread when i get go ahead and hopefully get some advice from you all then? its hard here in the uk as for the time diff but have found this site really helpful just reading other peoples experiences.
thanks again x
