[dshobbies]

Balir,

I realize why you would get upset over that very unproductive post (I'm putting it nicely) and no one can blame you. You're still very young and perhaps you don't yet realize that there are fools and bafoons in every walk of life. If someone feels you're acting in haste, alternative suggestions instead of criticism are appreciated. No one wants to be thought of as foolish and at this stage, you don't need to second guess any of your decisions. Making you feel bad about yourself is someone's elses insecurity.

In your shoes, I would thank him for his productive and supportive post at this critical and stessful time in your life. Surely his compassion is most appreciated and you will take his 'suggestions' under advisement, at least before shredding it into as many small pieces as is possible so when you shove it down his throat, at least he won't choke. See how thoughtful you can be?

Dale