Judy,
It's no surprise that your pain level is still high. You've been too too much too soon but you already know that which is why Maria and I remind you all the time to slow down. I realize you have little choice in your responsibilities to your children and you have to do what you have to do, but at the same time if you don't lighten up, healing will slow down. All this and you're still only 6 weeks post op. Most of us were still in some amount of pain at this time. So as I see it, the only solution is to slow down!!!!!
As for the divorce saga - support is support and because this extreme emotional turmoil would affect anyone's physical health, your healing has suffered as a consequence which is what we also discuss. However, I'm on board with whatever you decide. We can take this to emails which is probably easier than pms. Just let me know. And speaking of which, not stepping up to help a daughter - nothing more to say. His bad -
Dale
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3 level Prodisc adr S1-L3, Oct 12, 2005
Dr. B in Bogen, Germany
Severe nerve damage in left leg, still working on it
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