[jsewell]

thanks guys and i will probably hire an attorney soon, i may see 2 more this week and then pick one.
the first 2 charge $7500 retainers. Just want to see if that is the norm around here. He will pay anyway. Becka reminded me that she turns 18 while still in high school so he will have to pay until she graduates. another 6 months after, i was happy to hear about that. I told the attorney that i liked that i could not work and could get a doctors letter . My spine doc would be more than happy to do that for me. I do have a psychiatrist also , but i don't know if that is a good idea to include him. Possibly one from the endocrinologist i volunteer for. He knows of the difficulty i've had with Jeff as we have known each other for close to 10 years now. I have not been back and may wait another month or ask my surgeon what he thinks.
The kids are doing anything i ask. Becka just told me about the blackberry and the emails jeff got from women. It is still in our house, she just does not know where.
As far as money hidden, i don't think so, as he spends tons and once spent $5,000 in one month for food , i thought was just for himself. Probably was dining a few women that month.
bye for now
judy