[dshobbies]

I just wrote a lengthy reply and lost it.

The last part was dealing with your husband. As someone with a quick temper, I've learned that he who remains calm wins. Though you're tempted to tell him off, we all are, it will serve no purpose and just create more annimosity. Instead, remain calm, don't exchange harsh words even if he does - and he'll have nowhere to go with any anger.

Remember you're tied together with children and ... forever. You be the bigger man, (nasty remark here) and you'll know you did everything possible to keep the peace.

Judy, it does sound like your daughter could benefit from some help, whether she wants it or not.

Dale