[Maria]

Judy,
I certainly cannot give out marital advice perhaps maybe a suggestion though and that is if it appears you're going to have trouble w/contact and just getting simple things taken care of you may have bigger problems to come so you may want to consult with a divorce attorney. I'm sure there are consultations at no cost or very low cost and I think that much would be well worth your while at this point.

Glad that resting does help you to feel better. Remember you're working on the long term outcome here so try to do your best to be "good to yourself" re adequate rest as you see no one can do this for you except you.