[Maria]

Generally it's standard practice re surgical recommendations to get a 2nd and whatever opinion. In fact when covered by insurance it's called "2nd surgical opinion" and most insurances do cover it but won't tell you that as they'd probably be happy if you didn't get it (use the coverage).

Most of my opinions knew they were 2nd surgical opinions (have had 2 spine surgeries). You can be up front or not. If you're using your insurance go ahead and inquire about 2nd surgical opinion and in network coverage or out of network coverage as if there is not an in network provider that can give a second surgical opinion it's usually covered to go out of network although if you're concerned about coverage/payment and/or the office is you'd want to make sure about that.

Good luck! You sound like you're ready to move forward. BTW actually my first surgery didn't fail just it left the discs above it in a weakened position (putting load on adjacent discs) and guess at least one (L4) probably had something going on and just was in a weaker position to carry the load. L3 had an anular tear that I have no idea what's going on w/it now as I've done much better with no surgical intervention since '92. Much better than where I was after the 2nd surgery failed that is and hence my decision re no more surgery yet. My flare ups are nothing like they used to be (thankfully!)!!! I'll "reevaluate" when my functioning is severely limited or I have neurodeficits or strong reason for surgery as perhaps you have now.