[dshobbies]

Hi dvk,

Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry for your pain and the circumstances you find yourself in. I view this as an opportunity. I know nothing about the Axiomed Freedom Disc. I'm sure others will chime in here. I'd like to address your circumstances.

Having a baby is a difficult time in any couple's life. I know, I have 3. Having any surgery is a difficult time, I know, I've had ????. Both are a time when spousal support is more important. An unwritten rule in marriage is only one person can be needy at any given time. Not being there when your spouse needs you can be destructive. But you already know all this.

If you do nothing for your back - you won't be able to chase after your baby once she becomes a toddler. You won't be crawling around on the floor after her or scooping her into your arms when she scraps her knee. No throwing her over your shoulders, helping her fly a kite, teaching her to swim, ride a bike... You get the picture.

ADR surgery is usually a slow healing process. Those who try to speed it along usually suffer setbacks. If it goes well, you'll be able to take care of yourself (shower, dress) in a couple of weeks - if it doesn't- it may take a great deal longer. You have hopes but they aren't always completely realized.

ADR surgery is very expensive. Few people, and I suspect you as well or you would have already had this surgery, have insurance coverage. You have been accepted into a trial which I presume will pay all costs except perhaps travel if needed. These curcumstances are ideal with the exception of timing, which in a word -sucks. The next few months will be diffucult for sure, for both you and your wife. Now is the time to call on family members if they are available. If not, paying for a nurse or helper for your newborn will be a great relief to your wife. She'll be able to help you more as needed.

Knowing what I know- marriage, babies and ADRs, I'd go for it. Easy - no, worthwhile - a very definite yes.

Please understand that all of the above is assuming you have already decided to go ahead with ADR surgery. If not, that's a whole other discussion. If you'd like to talk, PM me with your phone number or I'll give you mine.

All my best to you, Dale BTW, a great big congratulations on that baby