Re more spine surgery and my then hip values was " you should be more concerned about a hip fracture than having surgery on your back again"... of course he didn't believe in back surgery as a cure for back pain in general and I was rather living proof of his beliefs...
I think speaking with Dr.Regan would be advisable. He would likely be able to answer your questions...or at least help point you in the right direction with further research on your concerns.
re adopting you.. hmmm... once again I think there are many far more qualified actual mommies on board here ~ remember I only have experience being a *mom* figure to some felines who rule me and a dog who probably does as well
